July 2010

Friday, July 30, 2010

Long distance relationship - dos and don'ts


Dos

♥ Establish an effective communication channel

The very first thing that you must do in a long distance relationship is to establish an effective communication channel. Most people will think that telephone is the most convenient mode of communication but apart from the telephone services, there are some other alternative you can use. Instant messenger, emails, VOIP phone and conventional mails can be very effective if you know how to use them. Each of the communication channels has its own advantages and disadvantages and therefore you must start to explore each of them to enhance your communication experience.



♥ Plan to meet each other

There is nothing more important than planning to meet each other again at an interval of time throughout the period of your long distance relationship. This will help both you and your partner to catch up with each other over the things that you cannot do while apart. The anticipation of seeing each other again will always give you the excitement, hope and as well as eliminating the lonely feeling in your LDR.



♥ Build hobby that you can both share

By building and keeping a hobby, both of you will have something to discuss and work on throughout your distance relationship. Finding something to do online can be quite interesting judging from its speed and reach ability but never leave out conventional hobby as well because you do not need to have your partner’s physical present to share a hobby.

Surprise your partner

Occasionally surprise you partner with cards, gifts, letter and flower out of their expectation apart from your normal correspondence. Put your imagination to use and your partner will be sure to love your effort in keeping them happy. Sending the unexpected gifts to your partner will always spice up your distance relationship regardless how far your partner may be.

♥ Capture and share that interesting moment

Throughout the period of your LDR, you can always capture some interesting moment of yours by exchanging photos, video clips and as well as audio recording. This will indirectly keep your partner informed on what has happen in your life despite the physical distance.

Don’ts

x Settle for a temporary replacement

One of the mistakes that a distance relationship couple often make is to settle for a temporary replacement when their partner is not physical around. By letting a third party into your life, you will not only put your distance relationship to risk but you will also break the mutual trust and agreement that you make. Although it may not be done intentionally but this type of mistake will be very costly to your long distance relationship.

x Take the relationship lightly

The absence of your partner does not give you the license to dictate and manipulate the relationship. You must remember that, your partner has their own right to participate in any decision making toward the well being of your relationship regardless where there are. A long distance relationship is also as important as a normal relationship and your partner has their own right to be treated fairly.

x Wait and see attitude

Most of the failures in distance relationship that we observed are contributed by the wait and see attitude of the couples themselves. This was caused by the insecurity of the couple as they do not think that the LDR will work but at the same time they do not want to put a stop to the relationship. Let me tell you this, if you plan to have this kind of attitude, refrain from walking into one at the first place because both you and your partner will suffer in the relationship. In a LDR, both partners must be committed and proactive in bringing the relationship to a higher level.

x Suspicion

There are no rooms for suspicion in a long distance relationship. In order for you to survive your distance relationship, you must learn to trust your partner whole heartedly. A single suspicion will break the bond you have for each other and it is a beginning of the end if you start to suspect your partner at any point of your LDR. Although it is easier said than done but trust me, if your partner is apt to do something unfaithful to you, they will still do it under your nose. Therefore there is no need for you to create such unnecessary stress in your LDR.

x Succumb to negative comment on LDR

Couples in distance relationship always make a mistake by believing that LDR do not work. The negative impression you have in LDR will eventually hunt you down and destroy your relationship if you choose to listen to the negative comment. Therefore, once you have decided to enter into a long distance relationship, you must learn to believe that your relationship will work.

Sunday, July 25, 2010

hehehe....labyu vanvan!

Personalize funny videos and birthday eCards at JibJab!

To My Cute Honey Baby..

Honey drin I Love You So Much! I have a song for you.. Hope you like it.. Hehe!

Tonight its very clear
As we’re both lying here
There’s so many things I wanna say
I will always love you
I will never leave you alone
Sometimes I just forget,
Say things I might regret
It breaks my heart to see you crying
I don’t want to lose you
I could never make it alone


Cause I am the girl who will fight for your honor
I’ll be the hero
That you’re dreaming of
Gonna live forever knowing together
That we did it all for the glory of love..

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Wonderful tonight tikig version =p

Sunday, July 18, 2010

YOU ARE THE BEST HONEY VAN!♥

..i just wanna thank you for the happiness you bring for the past few days....
for the sweetness you've shown.....for making me feel special.....
for the love you gave..for making me drool! :) Everything about you takes my breath away!!. ..I LOVE YOU HONEY VAN MORE THAN YOU'LL EVER KNOW....and that will never ever change, PROMISE!...I am yours, body, mind, heart and soul...

~
I'll be your crying shoulder,
I'll be love's suicide...I'll be better when I'm older,
l'll be the greatest fan of your life~
And I don't want the world to see me 'Cause I don't think that
they'd understand..When everything's made to be broken..
I just want you to know who I am....~

Friday, July 16, 2010

Baby Baby Ooh..

Honey baby i labyah!Hehe.. Thank God its Friday and tomorrow is bonding day. Haha! I miss you honey.. Hayz.. You're mine hon. I'll kill you if you find someone better than me.. =p I'm so excited to see you baby. I'll make sure that our anniversary will be one of the happiest moment in our relationship. I'm looking forward that our plans will really do come true.. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Missing You..

Hayz hon I miss you so much!Hindi tayo nakapag usap, hindi ka nagttext. Nakakainis na bagyo.. Hayz.. Pinipilit ko sarili ko maging masaya sa school kasi hndi ka talaga mawala sa isip ko.. I love you so much honey! I LOVE YOUI LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! 

Sunday, July 11, 2010

I LOVE DURIAN!!!!!!!

My honey Van bought me durian for our monthsary. She send those box packages fresh from Davao..hehe..i love both the smell and taste of durian!!! It's the best! it smells good and appetizing..hmmm... Im craving one right now! haha! It's best when you pop it in the freezer before eating, and yum yum yum, it melts in your mouth.It has a creamy texture.. .hmmm ..yum yum... Nag iinit ako kapag nakarami ng durian, tapos ambilis ng heartbeat ko..AAHH honey..hahaha .thank you so much! ansarap ng durian mo!..=p smells like heaven, tastes like heaven..

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

I miss you Drin..

I LOVE YOU BABY! I miss you so so much!I cant wait till Saturday comes. Excited na ako sa mangyayari ngayon weekend. Sana magustuhan mo yun hon. Hehe! Hon I miss your voice na. Hayz.. I love you baby drin. Thanks for being a good and supportive partner. We've been through a lot of things still we manage to have a strong relationship. Lahat ginagawa mo for me para mapasaya lang ako. I'm the luckiest girl and you're the best guy. :D I love you honey baby. Expect for more surprises. Hehe!

Sunday, July 4, 2010

I've been there in Davao City!!!


What a wonderful weekend!!.My honey and I have a great time bonding with each other..we talked for hours.. Ang dami nyang kwento..hehe..she told me about the different places in Davao... =p I'm dying to go there in Davao!! hehe..Ang galing kasi magkwento ng honey ko, parang nakarating na din ako sa Davao ...and I'm so excited to have my first taste of durian ...haha =p

... I had a great time with you my love...thank you for your time. you never fail to amaze me and make me happy. ...I love you so much honey Van!!

see you soon in Davao :)

Saturday, July 3, 2010

falling for you..........




I don't know, but I think I may be fallin' for you
Droppin' so quickly, maybe I should keep this to myself
Wait until I know you better

I am tryin' not to tell you, but I want to
I'm scared of what you'll say
So I'm hidin' what I'm feelin'
But I'm tired of holdin' this inside my head

I've been spendin' all my time just thinkin' 'bout you
I don't know what to do, I think I'm fallin' for you
I've been waitin' all my life, and now I found you
I don't know what to do, I think I'm fallin' for you
I'm fallin' for you

As I'm standin' here, and you hold my hand
Pull me towards you, and we start to dance
All around us, I see nobody
Here in silence, it's just you and me

I am tryin' not to tell you, but I want to
I'm scared of what you'll say
So I'm hidin' what I'm feelin'
But I'm tired of holdin' this inside my head

I've been spendin' all my time just thinkin' 'bout you
I don't know what to do, I think I'm fallin' for you
I've been waitin' all my life, and now I found you
I don't know what to do, I think I'm fallin' for you
I'm fallin' for you

Oh, I just can't take it, my heart is racin'
Emotions keep spinnin' out

I've been spendin' all my time just thinkin' 'bout you
I don't know what to do, I think I'm fallin' for you
I've been waitin' all my life, and now I found you
I don't know what to do, I think I'm fallin' for you
I'm fallin' for you, I think I'm fallin' for you

I can't stop thinkin' 'bout it, I want you all around me
And now I just can't hide it, I think I'm fallin' for you
I can't stop thinkin' 'bout it, I want you all around me
And now I just can't hide it, I think I'm fallin' for you
I'm fallin' for you, oh, oh, oh, no, no, oh, oh, oh, oh
Oh, I'm fallin' for you